I’m not gonna lie to you, it’s been a pretty heavy week here at Horizon. As many of you know, we had a terrible car accident involving five seniors from a local high school.

Driving way too fast, way too late, having had way too much to drink, they lost control and rolled the car at 1:45am Sunday morning. One of the passengers Alex Capozza was thrown from the car and pronounced dead at the scene, another spent several days in the hospital, three suffered only minor physical injuries yet have a memory they will never forget. Our prayers have been with the boys and their families including Brandon who was driving under the influence and currently awaits trial.

As heavy as this cloud of gloom has been, there have been some amazing rays of light. Several fellow classmates have started attending church and as a result have dedicated their lives to Christ. Three students (including one who was in the accident) were baptized this past Sunday following the weekend services (over 75 have been baptized from Horizon in the last month).

“So Parents, in light of this horrific tragedy, What do we do? How can we improve? (and kids for your sake, make sure they do it) Let me share with you a “Fourfold Foundational Framework for your Family”
Are you Ready???
1) PRAY: Pray with your kids. Don’t just pray for them; pray with them. The Bible says, the fervent prayers of the faithful availeth much. Praying for them is a must. Praying with them is obviously taking it to a fervent level of seriousness. It shows them your seriousness and teaches them by your example to take it just as serious as you.
2) PLAN: Plan to plainly live out your love for your kids. Don’t just tell them; show them! They need it as much as teen-agers as they did as toddlers. Regularly being reminded of your love will keep them from doing stupid things to gain the approval and acceptance from others. You need to make a plan to do everything in your power to keep your kids from making stupid mistakes and (God forbid) wrecking their lives.
3) PROTECT: I honestly don’t care how unpopular this might seem, parents your primary role is to protect your kids. Trust your instincts. If you have a hunch that things are too open to the wrong persuasions than pull in the slack. The worse thing you could do is give them so much freedom that is ends up destroying the very freedom they cherish. Set a family curfew; make sure you know who is influencing them most. Know that our adversary (the devil) roams about seeking whom he may devour. He wants to steal, kill and destroy this impressionable generation spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally.
4) PRIORITIZE: Church services and activities should be at the top of your priority list for your kids (no if’s and’s or butt’s). No excuses! Get them to church. Get them in a Bible Study. Get them in touch with some youth leaders and pastors who will re-enforce the priorities that you know are essential in building a strong spiritual foundation. Prioritize their Peers, their iPods, their Facebook account, their friends, movies, weekends, dreams, goals and fears. If you are their Parent, you need to help them Prioritize right from wrong, light from dark, good from bad and love from hate.

For those of you reading this who are struggling with your kids (or kids struggling with your parents) please know that I or any of the pastors at Horizon are available to talk with you about anything that is on your heart. May the Lord bless you and keep you. In Jesus name, amen.
